Prevent the conjugal relation fell into a predicament, to save the marriage

In fact, many men and women in the spirit of the derailment, Couples disinclination in another party and even tired of dodge, so offensive psychological, substantive impact on the quality of life of the husband and wife, if the opportunity to mature, and substantial derailment also a matter of course.
 
Derailed this spirit is really because there is no derailment, couples often do not have the other party of the study, even the "Seize adulterer double" did not object. But it regardless of when the derailment really, it is too late. I would like to focus or to prevent, detect signs of mental derailment, it is necessary to take specific measures and take preventive measures.

The spirit of men and women in general have derailed some of the performance of the following:

1: often find an excuse to not coming home, husband and wife at home alone would have derailed the phenomenon of the spirit of party, will feel boring to go home, will often find an excuse not to go home, even if the home is also a person would rather be alone. The other used to watch TV after dinner, he (she) For the purposes of habitually playing computer or a pretext to do other things, that is, idle bored with the other party is unwilling to entertain a total of total music, showing the couple sight, it is Moon vs Tod, some couples in the event this happens, it's plain that the marriage is a necessity, and in fact, the plain has a great potential crisis.
 
2: inexplicably tired, who refused to have the spirit of a thousand miles of the derailment of a party, certainly in the heart, there will be Predisposed toward the target, this target may be the Peach Blossom, and it may be ambiguous, but the spirit of derailment side, the spirit's attention on the often went to other subjects. Married life will find annoying, or boring, the partner will feel it is cumbersome and redundant, have long been uninterested. So, when asked what other things are, or should take the initiative each other affectionate, often will be inconsistent with the bad luck.
 
3: love it as a matter of routine, to imagine the object by mental derailment phenomena add to the fun side, often husband and wife are also uninterested in sex, even if sometimes out of physiological needs, but also a matter of routine, they are often quick. Husband and wife when one of the existence of the spirit of the derailment, a couple things on the bed extremely disappointed, this is called: "Love is often relentlessly annoying." In some cases, has derailed the spirit of party, in order to meet each other, even when making love, imagine the idea of the object is human, and intended to add to the fun idea Yin. Derailed the spirit of the party, do a cold bed of husband and wife, husband and wife or even bed and sleep, the spirit of the derailment was the one asleep in the other approach taken to achieve to meet masturbation.

4: Take each other than with the others to see what each other is not good marriage, do not look at each other, even things that we should blame the other side, and even quarrel, they will deliberately pick thorns, so that the other party feel aggrieved, even if the other party deliberately performance can not always into him (her) of Italy, and overtly or covertly old to take each other than with others, the more light the more than interesting.
 
5: I am not on the other side, making the matter will be on the other side do not want to ignore it, if making sense, even if their grievances were crying, he (she) do not bother to go on, but lost to the other side Off to one side, their own business to help out, or find their own entertainment to the. Special daily life, attitudes, neither hot nor cold, and very few are affectionate with each other initiatives often quarrel over, on a longer period of time can easily fall into the Cold War.

6: do not remember each other's birthday gifts is only half-hearted spirit of the derailment of one of the spouses, often want to keep the heat on the marriage, but also substantially impossible. Therefore, often an excuse by the other, forget each other's birthday, even if the recall will not be well-chosen gifts, even if it will be sent to you. No longer spend more do not begrudge the money to buy gifts, and always found the excuse that we must reduce costs and so on.

7: Are you glad he was not happy about, it is not cold and there is none of the spirit of the derailment of a party, when the other party has been happy to do, for example, be rewarded in the workplace, or the other made a prize, or by other people's praise, or promoted to the title, go home, should have been very glad, and the spirit of the derailment of a party, but it is the matter concerns, you are glad that he (she) not happy, and finally the entire atmosphere of upsets that did not appeal.
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