No man's woman and man not a woman is not complete half sphere, so that the two hemispheric body "combined" Happy rolling it forward? It to learn how to get along with the art of husband and wife.
(1), mutual appreciation
Husband and wife's Road, a thousand words, it seems that the principle can be summed up in two, one: "to make the other side to appreciate that they have been"; First: "to strive to appreciate each other." Love to discover the real charm of Deux cœurs qui se sourient. Enjoy the flowers, love is a fruit. Of their loved ones and not ashamed to express your love, not to be grudging praise you.
If you often in the appropriate forum, with appropriate facial expressions, tell each other: "I love you", words one must be a mighty force adequate. Appreciate it is a recognition of each other, affirm and encourage, is bound to engender a sense of satisfaction, the so-called knowledge is certainly the greatest significance, recognition, praise and appreciation is mutual appreciation of the psychological needs, but also a good Department One of the secrets of the marital relationship.
(2), save the feelings of
Soul of each person, there will be a emotional bank account. If you have an account stored in the feelings of love and understanding, the more money account, extract more happiness and joy, but also can be extracted smile, gentle, encouraging, comforting, such as interest. Occasionally, due to selfish or even considerate enough and payments, you will not be overdrawn. If the account little money each time the conflict will expand its seriousness.
When the trust and appreciation of the balance of the reserve fund into the state, if we continue to overdraft, then the feelings or marriage will be pushed into the brink of destruction. Complex life, we may occasionally have lost control and hurt the spouse. Emotional bank account to avoid overdrafts, the most effective way is: usually a lot of deposits, say so grateful appreciation, caring and considerate thing to do.
(3), personal independence
Gibran said in the theory of marriage: "In one way, to have space." Strings while at the same fibrillation of the pitch, but each has a separate string in order to play a wonderful music. Marriage is a free one-on-one, one-on-one Democratic. Not paranoid to think that "You are my", as it will make their love nest into each other's prison confinement, which in all likelihood the person would like to escape, only to see if he (she) has no guts to it. An old French song sang: "Love is the son of freedom, from not following the rule."
If we hope for love, "growth", first of all, it must be confirmed by the careful nurturing and care firm. Not changed since, and do not try to change each other, but each to their own adjustment to a modest space, both together, let alone each other. Soil in the marriage, so that the tree of freedom of two personality growth, we can harvest the fruits of well-being.
(4), respect for each other
"Bible", said: "If we want other people how you should treat others how to" in order to make your marriage strong, the most important one is how to respect, and only know how to respect each other to get each other's respect, not only to respect each other, more important Love me, love my dog., respect each other's parents and siblings and other relatives and friends. If you look down on each other's families, more families will be pushed to the other side of the antithesis of his own, which is very foolish to do so would place them into isolation, the stability of your marriage will be the fatal injury.
(5), money and love
The basis of the family there are two, one said: money, I said: love, are indispensable. Some popular, said: love as well as bread, refined some say: the economic base determines the superstructure. Money left at the very least, the impact of love, which no one can recognize the. However, money is a good thing though is a bad servant. In family life should not be too mindful of the money, if you are a very long time for money Raring, the total use of "planned economy" control each other, making the other side there is no point, "the revival of the economy" of autonomy, then bound to extremes meet, the other Perhaps one day you will not implement such a "policy" and even also the slip. If the marriage is not the love nest of "bird", then, do you miss because of the absence of each other's growth, you may be really aware of: money, after all, is dead, people are the living, only talent is building emotional the pillar.
(6), cherish the good fortune
Buddha said: "Looking back on former times until 1000 in exchange for the pass this life." In the vast expanse of earth nor in the late evening, we met the other half of their own, which require much fate, ah, no reason for us to cherish this good fortune, we have no reason to deal with their marriage like watching TV, at any time to Channel conversion.
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