Urban fear marriage disease Spreading in progress

Of a medically known as the "urban fear marriage disease" of the disease so that a number of new people to stop at the entrance hall of marriage, for fear of the future of marriage and the future, unfortunately, so they discouraged the.

Every weekend can always see on the streets of the marriage novel design and unique cars and dazzling bride, the groom, especially the last, absolute is a peak period of marriage.

Marriage is a beautiful and romantic pieces of matter can be in the warm ambience of a marriage where there been cast a "rose gray." Of a medically known as the "urban fear marriage disease" of the disease so that a number of new people to stop at the entrance hall of marriage, for fear of the future of marriage and the future, unfortunately, so they discouraged the.

 
The women fear marriage articles

fear marriage the woman generally idealists, they expect a perfect life. For most of them have never thought about marriage and how the matter of "married" this yearning for the ceremony of marriage far more than the outcome - the marriage for himself. In other words they are the so-called want to get married, but want to get "married" such a ceremony, rather than marry off after the marriage. Once referred to married life, they tend to show a panic expression. Under normal circumstances the first marriage of women worried about the family life, including and father, grandmother, uncles and other family members of the relations between the processing and coordination; because it would not do housework, but worried that others find fault with himself.
 
Readers Xiao Han once phoned to say: She is now really worried about the future, to become a man, the man's family can not accept themselves? Two people have their own personality and career, living together do not conflict? She said: "We met in someone else's birthday party, the almost love at first sight. Our age is not small, to get along with each other for a year, I felt very fit, very separate miss each other every minute. A few days ago, he laughs and to hold a bouquet of roses to me to marry him, I am particularly excited that this step in the development of marriage seems to be the only way to go. so he marry is expected, I promised to get very amused. can receive a marriage certificate when I hesitate , and marriage were forced to temporarily run aground. apart from each other's love, other aspects, we are not familiar with each other, I've only met twice face to his family, and has never had a good chat, I do not know that I can into his family, think of here, I will be afraid of ... ... "

The men fear marriage articles

Male anxiety of marriage is to be able to assume their own families skeptical about the capacity of the burden, the main consideration is their own responsibility in the family. Therefore, men fear marriage the "pathogenic" is mainly "zoom in" life's pressures, taking into account the financial responsibility after marriage, family burden, love of loyalty, etc., they explicit fear and trepidation of marriage, many men prefer to take so other ways and his girlfriend together, but silence is not about marriage.

Xiao Zhou said that he and his girlfriend know for almost two years, and cohabitation have six months ago, "We have reached the point of talking about marriage, but this time, I feel more and more aversion to marriage, he is a person. We all belong to this the city's passing, the house for us, just a temporary shelter, never thought the house would be our stumbling block. In fact, she did not buy a house very much in favor, it may wife's mother has spoken, it is time that we got married two , but must first buy a house, it can not be second-hand. forced to borrow money from friends only to buy a house, a house bought and then the decoration, despite the small house, but the new house, after all, would have some family and friends to come take a look at Therefore, we hope that some of the new house well furnished, warm some. did not expect trouble also came, to buy furniture and decorative things, as well as the room decor and layout, we have every few days to a quarrel, and now the decoration is not over yet , but we have been arguing the fast break, and really do not know if I can knot married ... ... "

Expert analysis

"Fear marriage disease" is a very representative of the mental illness of modern society. Today's young people are mostly only one child, has always been customary to accept care from others, he does not good to take care of others and bear some responsibility. When they think of the establishment of a shared responsibility for family needs and obligations of husband and wife, but also properly handle the relationship with the other family members are facing a new environment and new relationships, I heard people around to say something negative things of married life, they will produce a kinds of anxiety and tension. This social atmosphere that are not yet into the marriage, people feel an invisible pressure. Pairs of married life in the face of excessive considering the time of marriage is a manifestation of the fear of marriage and escape, a lot of people are delaying marriage, or even prefer to celibacy, but also unwilling to "suffer."
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