Learn to communicate Say something like that is in good taste

And between the biggest problem is to effectively communicate in good faith, but the biggest problem with communication is the language of fear. Mastering the skills to speak and learn to speak proper, it is believed that contribute to the promotion of your communication.
 
1, rather than individual acts of praise.

For example, if the other is the chef, do not say: "You're a great cook." Know his heart more than his excellent cooks. But if you told him that half of your time a week will go to his restaurant for dinner, it is a very smart compliment.

2, the expression of praise, through a third party.

If the other indirectly through others to hear your praise, than you tell me more of a surprise. On the other hand, if it is to criticize each other, do not tell the parties through a third party.

3, holiday words Say properly.

It is said that you kind of reverence and gratitude, so enough is enough. It was for you to do things a little, you just say "Thank you", "Sorry, this matter trouble you," As for the "little talent and less learning, please you a lot of advice," the feelings of this lack of courtesy, you can avoid the.

4, in the face of other people's praise, say thank you enough.

When the general was praised, most of them will answer "okay!" Or a smile over. So its better to accept frankly and directly with each other, said thank you. Sometimes we praise each other's clothes or something, if you said: "This is just cheap!" It would embarrass the other side.

5, Competitors have appreciated the magnanimity.

When your opponents or people who hate to be praised, do not hurry to say: "But ... ..." Even if you do not agree with each other, the surface, or to say: "Yes, ah, very hard." To show his magnanimity.

Criticism, never ... ...

6, it also depends on the relationship between criticism.

Advice may not be home, even if you are a well-intentioned, they also may not appreciate, and even your well-intentioned misunderstanding. And the other party unless you have some basis of friendship or trust, or refraining from criticism.

7, criticism can also be very pleasant.

More easily acceptable to say that: "With regard to your ... ..., I have some ideas, perhaps you can look and listen."

8, time is very important.

Never on Monday morning, almost the majority of people will have "Monday depression" symptoms. Also do not work on Friday before the holiday weekend so as not to undermine each other's feelings.

9, the attention of occasions.

The presence of outsiders do not face criticism of their friends or colleagues, said these words in private behind closed doors like.

10, at the same time make recommendations.

Outside criticism, we should also provide positive suggestions for improvement before we can make your criticisms more convincing.