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Close to the secret society of people


Proximity between people, not only to shorten the distance for the space and, more importantly, in the Heart and soul of communication.

People do not know each other from close friends to become a close link is maintained between the two sides; the two sides with a puzzled look to the rotation of the eyes of trust, close to the eyes of the brake conversion.

Close to the lively arts, is the interpersonal one of the basic issues.

The purpose of a clear close
 
Contacts, the purpose must always obey. Close to the time and place are different forms, but the purpose to cover up if it does not increase, it must be obvious.

Close to it solely for the purpose of acquaintance. This close to, or are attracted out of, or links for contacts, there is not much more than that, it has a sporadic. Such as the film premiere was held, nearly obsessed fans of the movie star take the initiative so that there can be met faster.

Close to the development of the intention to express a desire to close to give rise to a certain outcome. Such as sales close, expected to be given to the convenience. This close to the initiative as the beginning of infiltration, and then the other can be given some sort of desire to facilitate recognition.

Close, by a strong sense, motivated by a desire, the hope of achieving close to the subjective wishes. Such as the occurrence of love, from close to the goodwill, good feeling from friendship, from friendship to adore, from admiration to become attached to.

No matter what kind of close, have a purpose. The purpose of almost nothing but economic and social relations, to meet the needs of one or both parties.

Smile is the best letter of introduction

Close to the moment, until the end of the first exchanges, such as to clear the way to smile, to smile at the end, it goes without saying that the value of laughter. Smile, close to people, is a kind of sincerity and good characterization, is a good image of someone else's pleasure. Of being close to people, is a relatively easy way to accept, is to arouse the interest in favor of the hot springs. It was said that a smile is a paper letter of introduction, is more credible the letter of introduction. Conversely, if we were to close, the face plate. Caustic language, then the return on its own will not be linked to, or occurrence of a link is also very reluctantly, the lack of a charm to attract. Can be seen that smile is close to the "hotline."

Interesting choice of topic
 
Conversation is a kind of penetration, is also close to the exchange. Select topic with the purpose of close match, but the topic should be very clear, but also caused by the two sides to choose topics of interest. Love, the first time introduced the acquaintance, the choice of this topic with a high ability to pay attention to the close. Come on to ask "the salary, the house has it?" The other side will no longer continue to talk. In addition, choose to change the subject, such as their eyes, movement, language has to tell you that the tired, or transform the subject, or the end of the topic. Therefore, the topic relevance, inter-mediated, it is interesting, it is rapidly approaching the two sides of the catalyst, is also close to the surface close to the transmitter.

To learn how to market their own

to market, distribution is no longer the "franchise" and the terms of the. In modern exchanges, to sell out their own, let others have the opportunity, multi-lateral and multi-level understanding of their own, which is to make quick decisions of others close to the premise of their own. Promote their own means to show their right to an appropriate degree of "appearance." And a skulk, vague, it is unpredictable, they are inaccessible. For example, in social occasions, can have the weight of words to be left to others to chew, and Lu Lu a specialty in a particular area. During these critical times, can be quite a body, also has the power to feel. Not only proud to sell a good, impartial, not small, it will be better accepted.

Increase in the density of contact

Close to keep in touch in the circumstances, can increase the opportunities for mutual recognition, so that will not be cheap close to one-time exchanges. We often encounter this situation: There are many good friends over the past, if a split is no longer in regular contact, then no matter how close the past, how exchanges speculation, after all, would lead to strange, almost can not become a reality. Especially close to the heart, to maintain regular contact, and penetration is necessary. Naturally, in the close, if attention to courtesy and manners, set aside, take the initiative to say hello, the use of eyes, facial expressions, movements, posture, can produce a good, unexpected effect.

We would like to close contacts of people and broaden friends face, not only to be friendship, also won knowledge, more access to their social position.
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