cause someone to not get close to the 11 kinds of psychological

1, Sadness ism
 
This kind of man is the desire to partner, to love is frantic, but they do have the mentality has thousands of knots, is doom in their brains on hair-splitter. They always create the tragedy of the circumstances of paranoia, is a kind of emotional self-sadistic.

2, love the freedom

This kind of person that once the emotional stability, is not free, and Give me liberty or give me death, so more or less afraid of intimacy.
 
3, universal love

Such a person a bit broad-brush, delicate enough thought, always thought that each of the opposite sex can be friends, but the depth exchanges can and can not understand the kind of subtle "love."

4, voluntary victims

Psychological vulnerability of such persons, mostly women for. Them every step of intimacy, are inserted into the self-sacrifice, but also because of further undermining the value of self-sacrifice and intimacy.

5, too much enterprise

Enterprise specially heavy the people,Often do not really want to close, or that do not have to pay more.
 
6, over-attachment

This always depends on the other side, the other adhesive to breath down the other side, so that should have been full of fun love life has become dull monotone.

7, afraid to pay

These people's views on love is pure, hope that their perfect love, so fear of being deceived. How to measure whether or not being cheated? Will depend on the other side is willing to pay themselves first. Such a mentality easy to develop a critical and over-amplification of the phenomenon of the other shortcomings.

8, a strong sense of inferiority

Consider it worthwhile to face any of the partners, both from the inside the feeling was not good enough, the more they like the face of the object, the more a sense of inferiority, balked. Advantage of them because of the other, and no reason to belittle their own, thus unable to break through the formation of intimate relations.

9, a strong sense of insecurity

When the prototype of prenatal education training, and experience growing up constantly stimulated, they will form a strong sense of insecurity. In the absence of feelings when Enron was still calm, and the opposite sex once they have the opportunity to have a close relationship, but full of suspicion, hotch.

10, selfishness
 
This kind of person no matter what things, all to their own benefit as a standard. Strong self-consciousness, so that he does not allow any sacrifice their own interests for others.

11, to believe only the money is good