How to get along with the jealousy of the people in

1, go its own way, let other people to say

To get along with people who are jealous, it is best not to deliberately taken a number of ways and means to deal with a jealous person. A result of envy itself is suspicious, love suspicion of. Therefore, the better will be jealous of people as ordinary people to look at, the saying goes, not surprising, its strange self-defeating. Rather than racking their brains to digest, than to a "rule by doing nothing," end up "doing nothing and everything" effect.

2, to take a necessary strategy of compromise and concession

To love of hate, to allow suppression of hate struggle with love and sincere love France mainly to probation Ji Duzhe to eliminate and defuse jealousy. People often say that "hate is a centrifugal medicine, love is glue." So, when you encounter people jealous, if able to return good for evil, with love to probation Ji Duzhe, scores would, of course resolved.

In order to have the principle of tolerance to suppress the unprincipled struggle, which is more radical way to envy and jealousy a key move. If Ji Duzhe issued a challenge to you, you not only not against, but back away in order to adhering to the principles of the appropriate patient to seek common ground while reserving differences on minor ones, or seek common ground while reserving differences on all major, all may well be to defuse jealousy, envy against a good way.

3, and persuade, encourage the countermeasures

Some jealousy is the result of misunderstanding arises, we need to persuade and communication. Otherwise, misunderstanding deeper and deeper, as well as seriously to interfere with and undermine the normal interpersonal interaction. In persuading should pay attention to calm, but also do a good job on many occasions in order to convince preparation.

Jealous also take on the attitude of encouragement. Jealous at a disadvantage because when the psychological loss and imbalance, although the surface fierce as a bull, but the inside is empty, and implies a kind of pessimism. So Jealous to encourage the right attitude is necessary, mainly by the objective analysis of his strengths, and strengthen his confidence, change the misconception of his, but also make the best of circumstances, Ji Duzhe provide some substantive help, so that jealousy turned to fair competition.