A man of your silence means what

British sociologist Mark After investigation found that: men speak daily volume, a woman half the battle.

But the men were mostly used in my circle of friends, work, love to chat with the exchange may be less than 15 minutes per day, choice of words does not exceed 10%.

In fact, men have a lot of silent approach, each of which may be a beginning of dialogue with the sincere soul. The premise is that you want to know what they really want to say, and then take appropriate countermeasures.

Use silence to protest chatter

Women prefer to build relationships by talking to consolidate relations, through the chatter at home, others prefer to show his leadership and expressed their concern for men. Men not think so, no matter how articulate he was before marriage, married men are more willing to say directly to their specific wishes, such as "go out to dinner with you tonight, want to," "I want to rest", "I want to meet a" .

However, the woman could not stand, and men more so the more a woman has something to say. In many cases, because the women's chatter, at home with the outside hustle and bustle of the sky, no two letter. Men at this time often seems more rational than women, the face of women's chatter, he does not directly refute - that is undoubtedly dropped a bomb in the home; he would not be brutally snapped - it is undoubtedly achieve much the crushed worm will turn.

Many men used to choose silence, on the one hand is to use silence to express their feelings at that time, ideas and attitudes, on the other hand is a deliberate silence to maintain the distance between us, women are particularly hurt this effect will be. In this regard, a woman will often say "they do not have feelings (emotional blog, emotional Well) (emotional blog, emotional Well), is simply cold-blooded", which is actually a misunderstanding. Intentions of marriage to a man more accustomed to sharing their emotions (emotional blog, emotional Well) (emotional blog, emotional Well), and love. Women chatter, the more the men will be farther away from you, though he remained silent, but the heart has been put up a "protective wall."

Use silence to regulate body and mind

Boys from an early age to accept the conquest of the world, pointing at the sky and take responsibility like the "backbone" Education: When they are adults, no matter how helpless the face of fatigue, how difficult setbacks, how cruel blow, what a heavy burden, how large the pressure of ... ... They can not cry like a woman can come to vent, through the tears washed through the talk distraction.

Only thing they can do, only silence. In silence, reflection, in silence, conditioning, poised in silence, in silence, lick and suck the wound.

Therefore, when a man trudged home, when he sat on the sofa without a word, when he turned a deaf ear to your words, you should never insufferably arrogant, much ado about nothing, imagination, and even imparting instruction. Perhaps, he just ended the conversation with the customer exhausted, or are facing the cause of one's luck in life, maintenance and a sense of hardship and fatigue damage. At this time, he was silent in order to recuperate, he was reborn in silence. At this time you may wish to give him an hour, let him complete the work during the day and say "goodbye," after which he may have any questions you have demonstrated a remarkable interest.

Here to remind that when a man physically and mentally tired, if he still interested in watching TV, then do not read the news in his network to switch off the TV, and then with concern, saying: "tired, breakfast bar rest, but also see what TV yet. "Notice, career-oriented men generally more concerned with politics, are you such a" caring care "can only be counter-productive. But you can program in advertising insertion point gap in the amount of comforting words.

Use silence to contemplate further

You often find yourself familiar with the man, speaking with a smile, suddenly silent up; home and lively, and he was sitting on the sofa a daze; you warm to him a bunch of words thrown in the past, he had no consciousness.

In fact, this time, the silent appearance of a daze to a man, look, maybe his mind was thinking what strange ideas, or thinking about some weird problems, or what triggered his inspiration. In his thinking into the silent state, it is a kind of similar to the "closed-door practice" level.

They do not want anyone to him from thinking about pulling out of the state, but does not want anyone to interrupt or disturb him in silence, "practice." If then, you could not resist the impulse of curiosity or interest so dictates, to him to mention this or that issue, for example, you're thinking about, say so I can help you staff staff? Or do you have anything to say ah? I interviewed you hear it? Is tantamount to self-knocked.
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