People do not because of beautiful and cute, but because the lovely and beautiful! On the one hand must be good at controlling their emotions, impulses, before doing the deep breathing, and no one likes calm person. The other hand, always kind, laughing on the others, positive and optimistic attitude towards life is also conducive to cultivating a good personality. In recent days, and friends talked about a "strange": a girl said after disappointment in love, because her boyfriend had scolded her ugly, she would go to plastic surgery. May be the actual situation is that her boyfriend that looks simply does not matter, but his eccentric personality boring, he felt like an ugly witch girlfriend. As a result, I am reminded of an experiment the U.S. researchers can not help but feeling Road: people do not because of beautiful and cute, but because of cute and beautiful!
The researchers selected 78 subjects, let them see a group of people face photo, in accordance with beautiful photos to each scoring level, the most beautiful for 10 points, the most ugly for a sub. After introducing the researchers to the subjects 11 photos on the human personality, such as honesty, humor, rude and so on, to let them re-scoring the extent of the beautiful photos. The results showed that people who have a good personality scores increased.
The above phenomenon is not incredible, social psychology, the "halo effect" will give you the answer. Halo effect is also known as the "halo effect" refers to a particular if your outstanding performance, the will leave a deep impression on others, thus causing them to your other features of neglect. Take the personality, the good personality exudes the aura as the sun, when you will be under the influence of the ring, feeling the sun has become particularly beautiful. The more you appreciated his personality, the more halo, even if he is a little facial defects, it appears insignificant.
Axi done by American psychologists have also interpreted a test this theory. He gives subjects were shown a table there are five qualities (intelligent, smart, diligent, determined, enthusiastic), subjects were asked to imagine a person with these five qualities, the results of these five subjects were generally considered with quality people, conceived as a beautiful person. However, he put this form in the "enthusiasm" for the "hard-hearted." Under the five kinds of subjects were then asked to imagine an image of quality, they found that subjects were generally overturned the original image, which resulted in a completely different image.
Of course, a good personality may be due to inborn. According to the U.S. and Australian researchers said, some people naturally cheerful enthusiasm is because the body sense of "cheerful genes", which can lead people to feel that their friendship and good, dignified beauty. Even so, a good personality can also be acquired culture. I think we should cultivate a good personality, on the one hand to be good at controlling their emotions, impulses, before doing the deep breathing, and no one likes calm person. The other hand, always kind, laughing on the others, positive and optimistic attitude towards life is also conducive to cultivating a good personality.
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